From Our point of view

A few friends of mine were getting together and an issue came up. It seems as if 'We' African American Women are no longer feeling desired by African American men. We had several different things that support this opinion so to say.

In music videos that have African American men artist performing, we rarely see black women in them. There is normally a really exotic Latina or middle eastern girl portrayed as a romantic interest, or a Caucasian woman. There are also other things that support this opinion.

We see a lot more Interracial marriages and couples. A lot of African American men are telling African American women that they no longer, are interested in women of color. Leaving black women to feel less desired and beautiful. The thing is they believe that African American women are less focused and to strong willed, to put it lightly spoken.


African American women are a little upset by these statements. They believe they are strong and beautiful. The black family is severely broken. Fathers are walking out on their families more commonly leaving the situation to be with a woman of a different race. Which causes the African American woman to be bitter and afraid of trusting any man for that matter.They are being father and mother to their children.


Some of my friends talked about now dating out side of their race claiming that men of different ethnicity's treat them better than African American men, others choose not to date at all claiming when they did date outside of their race they felt like or trophy or a sex toy.


So I guess the question still remains......


Are We No Longer Desired?